Number of countries visited: 3
Number of planes flown on: 4
Number of trains: 3
Number of high speed trains: 1 (France's TGV)
Number of miles driven: about 1500
Number of funiculars: 2 (Sacre Coeur and Heidelberg)
Number of subway rides: lots (on the Paris metro)
Number of buses: 1 (the on/off bus in Paris)
Number of horse drawn carts: 1 (Neuschwanstein)
Number of Manhattans: 4
Number of countries in which a Manhattan was found: 3
I suspect there may be some doubters out there about whether it is
possible to spend more than two weeks on vacation with an aging mother,
wife, daughter-in-law, mother-in-law (I think I got all of the
relationships on this trip), spending every day together for 17
days. We've been back in the USA for a bit more than a week
now. As I reflect back on this vacation, I can say unequivocally
that it is not only possible, it can even make you feel good about
making such a trip with your mom. Our trip went rather
smoothly. We have always been a rather tight knit family of
father, mother, brother, and me, and have remained close as we all have
aged into adulthood and old age. My dad died in 1996, and it is
unfortunate that we didn't do a vacation like this years ago. The
opportunity was there this year since I was already in Europe on
business and just added two weeks vacation to the trip.
This was mom's first ever trip out of the USA. Although she
travels once in a while to visit us in Georgia and other family in NY,
she was pretty nervous about making this trip. However, I think
she now knows it's a bit easier than she suspected it would be. I
wouldn't say there weren't challenges. There were some, and it
helped to understand that mom was like a fish out of water. For
example, mom has known nothing but good old American dollars all her
life. Now she was faced with having to deal with German marks,
French francs, and Swiss francs. It became obvious after the
first couple of days that mom wasn't taking very easily to dealing with
foreign money and figuring out what it was costing her in
dollars. So I told her to just give the merchant the paper money
that is just above what the charge was and hope the merchant gives her
the right change. Then I gave her some guidelines as to how to
quickly figure out what it was costing her in dollars. Of course,
Diane and I were around to help her with that translation. But
she really never got the hang of it and it was amusing to see her
struggle with it. Hec, there are still
times, even after traveling since 1993, when it's easier for me to just
give a merchant a paper bill and not mess with the coins.
There was also the matter of crossing streets in Paris. I
wouldn't say that mom felt threatened crossing the streets.
Actually, she was petrified. Although mom was born in the
countryside in Pennsylvania, she spent most of her youth and early
adulthood in New York City. But all those years away from the big
city had
made her leery of the traffic in a big city. As much as we tried
to have her walk up with us, mom's comfort zone seemed to be a few
paces behind Diane and me. It took me while to realize that this
is where she wanted to walk. That was OK, until we had to cross
busy streets, even the ones with
pedestrian lights. The drivers in Paris are aggressive, to say
the least. They come right up to the pedestrian crossing, and
they do so at a speed that makes you wonder if they are going to
stop. Diane and I are used to this, but mom wasn't and it scared
her. There were a couple of times when we started to cross the
street and she hesitated. Now that can get you hurt or
killed. So we modified our street crossing behavior to make sure
mom was to the side of us which was away from the traffic and that she
was up with us and sometimes holding her hand.
None of the situations we encountered that required some behavior
modification on our part were a problem. I think if one is
sensitive to these types of situations, and makes appropriate
adjustments, then things go pretty smoothly.
So how did mom enjoy her vacation. Mom isn't very expressive, and
doesn't gush about things. If the number of photos she took was
any indication, I'd say she had a great time. Maybe it will come
out more as she tells her friends and neighbors about her first trip
out of the USA. I did ask her several times how she was enjoying
the trip and she said she was having a good time. She liked
Germany and Switzerland the best for the open spaces, the hills, the
mountains. She mentioned in Bavaria and Switzerland that they
looked to her
like in the movies she remembered. It made her think of Shirley
Temple and Heidi.
I'm glad I thought about asking her to join us on vacation, and that
Diane was quite willing to go along with it. In the end, I felt
good that she had this opportunity to see lands and cultures outside of
what she had known all her life. I was also glad to be able to
share some of the places that Diane and I had been to, and to see her
reactions to them. Places such as Neuschwanstein and Wieskirche
that left her speechless for a few moments. I know she enjoyed
visiting the various cathedrals and churches along our routes.
The European churches make you feel you are in a holy place, much more
than the
modern churches of today in the USA. Whether or not it was the
right thing to do with all that money hundreds of years ago while the
peasants starved is another subject. I doubt you would see too
many churches like that being built today.
As for Paris, although it wasn't exactly what she pictured it to be, it
was obvious that she was thrilled to see the Eiffel Tower in
person. She enjoyed the boat ride on the Seine, Sacre Coeur, and
Montmartre, which reminded her of what she pictured Paris to be
like.
AND....she was able to get a Manhattan in every country. What
more could she ask for? The trip was a success.
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